Incorporating a Vibrator into Sex

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For those of you who can’t climax from penetrative sex alone—only 18% of women can, according to research—a vibrator can make the act a little more…satisfying. Even if you and your lover go to O-town on a regular basis, your favourite toy could make the experience even more magical, stress-relieving, and delightful. (These are only a few of the advantages of having an orgasm.)

 

But how do you go about accomplishing this? Without a toy, I propose exploring and getting to know each other and your partner’s body. Then, when you’re ready to add a toy, tell your spouse that you think it’d be fun to try something new and use a vibrator together.

 

When you’ve agreed that you’re both ready to bring them in, you can experience a new level of pleasure and orgasm you weren’t aware of. Here, the emphasis is on both. It’s vital in coupled sex that everyone is on the same page when it comes to the toys that will be added to the session. Once you’ve decided to use a vibrator (kudos for asking for what you want!! ), here are nine sex positions to try with your bae and a vibrator.

 

Chair in Backwards Position

 

This reverse cowgirl-meets-sitting-spoons pose is the offspring of reverse cowgirl and sitting spoons. Place your partner on the edge of the bed or in a chair (preferably one without arms) with their feet planted in the ground for stability. Spin around and perch on their lap by easing yourself down onto their penis or dildo.

 

Hold a full-coverage vibrator against your clitoris that bends or curves in the shape of a pelvis (like the Laya II, which cups your vulva). This position provides full-body vibration while also allowing you to customise the speed and depth to your liking.

 

Allow your spouse to take over some of the control by having them hold the toy while you move. They can also utilise the floor as a lever and thrust.

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Motor-Mission

 

With the help of a pillow and a vibrator, give this classic position some oomph. The following is how it works: To begin, place a pillow under your buttocks, giving your partner more access and possibly allowing them to hit your A-spot. After that, take your favourite handheld vibrator and press it against your body. Alternatively, you can free up your hands by using the best vibrators online in Malaysia sold here, which feature flexible wings that tuck under the labia and keep it in position as you hold onto your partner’s back, grab their butt, or hold their face and gaze lovingly into their eyes.

 

Masturbation of each other

 

Masturbating with your lover is as underappreciated as pube oil and Teva sandals (don’t get me started). Your spouse is likely to utilise a specific method when they touch themselves, giving you a front-row view. You’ll love looking about, listening to the sounds, learning about your partner’s preferences, and even asking questions.

 

Lay on your backs, facing each other, and gaze into each other’s eyes to intensify that oh-so-close-to-you sensation. It’s possible that your legs will become intertwined. For some couples, this is a terrific position to explore during and after climax to encourage grounding the nervous system and body.